Hey Friend,
Gosh, it's been a hot minute since I've written one of these.
Things have been pivoting and shifting over here like crazy,
so I thought I'd give you a little peek into what I've been up to...
Frazzled to Fulfilled Financial Coaching was born in January. :)
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This desire was placed on my heart back in October of 2019
when I started a very personal journey to get my finances in order.
Money is not often talked about, and when done so, is often done
in a negative light. You almost feel greedy or selfish or dirty if you
are talking about money, and really looking for ways to acquire more.
Not acquire more in a selfish way, but in order to better your
financial future and to learn how to become a better steward
of the money that God has blessed you with. Ultimately, it all belongs
to HIM!
I am trying to break that stigma and normalize money talk!
See for 20 years I didn't talk about it...
I didn't acknowledge the mess I was in...
I didn't seek help to get my finances in order.
I was guilt-ridden, ashamed, and hopeless.
I didn't seek help to get my finances in order.
I was guilt-ridden, ashamed, and hopeless.
But there is always HOPE!
So I decided to open up, to share about my mess,
and in doing so I have watched it transform into my MISSION.
My mission to bring back hope!
My mission to bring back hope!
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In the last 17 months, I have:
- Established a solid working budget
- Started an emergency savings fund
- Paid for my first Christmas completely in cash
- Got certified as a Financial Coach
- Rebuilt my website
- Paid off almost $20,000 in debt
- No longer feel hopeless!
I am so excited to see what God has in store for me next!
I know that it was necessary for me to go through what I have
I know that it was necessary for me to go through what I have
in order for me to be able to help YOU as you walk it, too!
That's really what this thing called life is all about, isn't it?
We are called to use our experiences, our struggles, our trails,
That's really what this thing called life is all about, isn't it?
We are called to use our experiences, our struggles, our trails,
as learning opportunities, so that we can in turn be a help,
comfort and blessing to others walking a similar road.
I would love to expand this blog in the future, and not only continue
to share encouragement and hope, but also real and practical tips
that will be valuable to you as you journey towards financial freedom.
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If you find yourself in a financially hopeless situation right now,
If you find yourself in a financially hopeless situation right now,
I encourage to you speak up, reach out and find help.
I know that nothing good comes out of staying silent.
It is a dark place.
But when you open up and let the light shine in,
the darkness loses it's power.
I am hosting a Free Workshop called Every Penny Counts
I am hosting a Free Workshop called Every Penny Counts
on Monday, March 22nd.
It may well be just what you need to get a spark of hope!
You can learn more about it HERE.
Feel free to explore the new website, and let me know what you think!
It may well be just what you need to get a spark of hope!
You can learn more about it HERE.
Feel free to explore the new website, and let me know what you think!
As always...
Blessings!
Nicole
When you don't know what to do, do what you know.
I coined this phrase a few months back,
when the world as I'd known it
pretty much started to crumble.
I froze.
What on earth could I possibly do at a time like this
that would make any difference?
The 'time like this' can be any situation
you are facing that is new,
scary, crazy,
upside-down, inside-out,
or just downright hard.
Do what you know.
Do what is familiar.
Do what is comfortable.
For me, back then, I made some stuff
I knew people could use and I gave it away.
For me, right now, it's pray.
There are days I don't have words.
I like to think God still hears my silence.
Friend, don't overthink it.
In the midst of your pain,
anger, frustration, resentment,
heartache...
Tonight, just do what you know.
And let God handle the rest.
Until next time... blessings!
"Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the LORD delivers him out of them all." Psalm 34:19
Hello Friend,
You will never get a second chance to make a first impression....
While that is absolutely true, do you put as much effort into
making sure that your second, third, fourth... impressions
are just as powerful?
Do you ever really stop and think about the impressions
you are leaving on other people?
When someone has an encounter with you,
do they walk away better than when they came?
Mother Teresa said,
"Spread love everywhere you go.
Let no one ever come to you without leaving happier."
I share my thoughts in a bit more detail below,
(fast forward through the first minute to skip the banter, lol)
and I'll be the first to admit, that's a pretty tall order!
Humans by nature are selfish.
We are super quick to point out
how someone else made US feel, aren't we?
But we don't often stop and think on the reverse.
If you want people to leave your presence
feeling just a little happier than when they arrived,
here are a few things to keep in mind.
1. Don't criticize or condemn
2. Give honest and sincere recognition and appreciation
3. Smile
Be mindful of this as you got about your day today,
try implementing one or all of the things above,
and note the response you get from others.
I bet it will not only leave them with a
favorable impression of you,
but it will change your attitude as well. ;)
Until next time... Blessings!
Hey Friend,
Switching gears just a bit for today because I have to share something that I am passionate about...
Essential oils played a huge part six years ago in changing the life path that I was on.
Essential oils played a huge part six years ago in changing the life path that I was on.
They were the stepping stone that allowed me to leap into something unknown, scary... but empowering.
The gave me back a power I didn't even know that I had... the power to take control over my family's health and wellness!
I have a hunch that you want to harness that same power for yourself...
And for that reason, I will shout from the rooftops for as long as I live, and do everything I can to help others take that leap. You aren't alone.
And for that reason, I will shout from the rooftops for as long as I live, and do everything I can to help others take that leap. You aren't alone.
My only regret was that I didn't know about these way sooner... like when my kiddos were little.
I was young, easy controlled, went with the flow, did what I was 'supposed' to do, didn't rock the boat.
So I didn't question anything that I was told... just did it cause that's the way you are supposed to do it.
Sound familiar? I hope not, but if it does...
Mom, dad, grandma, grandpa, aunt, uncle....
Rock the boat.
Question everything.
Look at the ingredients.
Read the labels.
Do your research.
IT MATTERS!!!
So I have to take a minute today and tell you about these oils... created just for your kiddos! (Spoiler alert: You can use them too!)
This little collection has been around for awhile now, but it just got discounted and bundled with this adorable owl diffuser/nightlight/white noise machine. Plus, through the end of the month, it also includes a brand new oil (KidPower) for free!
If you have ever thought about maybe NOT doing things the way you've always done them.
If you have ever looked for a safer, more natural alternative to supporting your kiddos.
If you have ever longed to be part of a community of like-minded moms and dads.
Friend, this is for you.
Let me give you a quick rundown of the oils included and what they can do for your family...
💥KIDPOWER💥
Bravery in a bottle for the littles! Roll on wrists or spine, or take a big inhale, when you’re going into a new situation and need some courage.
Bravery in a bottle for the littles! Roll on wrists or spine, or take a big inhale, when you’re going into a new situation and need some courage.
🎓GENEYUS🎓
Let’s call this one focus in a bottle. This oil is a game changer for anyone that has trouble focusing on one task! This is a great one to roller on the back of the neck (brain stem) before school work! Throw a few rolls on a leather bracelet or necklace, apply a bit to wrists when you really need to concentrate.
🌱SNIFFLEEASE🌱
Looove this on little chests and backs! Full of powerful oils like Eucalyptus blue, Palo santo, Lavender, Dorado azul, Ravintsara, Myrtle, Eucalyptus globulus, Marjoram, Pine, Eucalyptus citriodora, Cypress, eucalyptus radiata, Black spruce and Peppermint oils, this is so so needed during the fall and winter to make little lungs happy!
😊TUMMYGIZE😊
Leave this one out where the kids can grab it whenever they need it. It’s so beautiful to teach them to be in tune with their bodies needs! A swipe on the belly will help pretty much any issue feel better! A blend of Spearmint, Peppermint, Tangerine, Fennel, Anise, Ginger, and Cardamom, TummyGize is the perfect relaxing blend for massaging onto little tummies.
😴SLEEPYIZE😴
This relaxing bedtime (or anytime!) blend is so beloved for all ages! SleepyIze contains a beautiful combination of Lavender, Geranium, Roman Chamomile, Tangerine, Bergamot, and Sacred Frankincense, as well as sleepytime favorites Valerian and Rue! You will adore this blend in your little one’s diffuser at night, and rolled on to undersides of the big toes and down the spine. Perfect for nighttime bonding and snuggles, you are going to LOVE it!!
🩹OWIE 🩹
For allllll the boo-boos!!!! Another one to leave out where the kids can easily grab it when needed! It’s formulated with Tea Tree, Elemi, and other oils which are gentle and perfect for the skin, so keep this one handy for application whenever your little one needs some extra love and care.
Check out the full cost breakdown and savings on these gems!
These are available to grab NOW!
Use THIS LINK to find them. Just click on the Other Premium Kits tab.
Oh, did I mention you'll also be getting a special gift from me?? Yeah, that too! :)
(And, if this particular bundle isn't for you, there are others to pick from!)
Shoot me a message once you've grabbed these so I can formally welcome you to the community!
Need some questions answered first? Just ask!
Until next time... Blessings!
Nicole
PS: If you are already a YL member, check out the brand new KidScents roller collection!
Friend, look deep... deeper... Deeper....
Do you see more than just an acorn?
Do you see the potential that is inside?
I found this acorn over the weekend,
and I have been learning a bit more about
what it takes for the oak tree to spring forth.
It's fascinating.
I go into more detail HERE
if you have 10 minutes to spare
and want to take a listen.
If you don't, I'll get right to the point.
You have so much potential inside you.
In order for it to take root,
you may just need to go through a really dark season.
In order for it to spring forth,
you may just need to be broken.
In order for it to be nourished,
you may just need to rely on others.
When you are walking through the
dark and broken places,
don't miss what God has put
right in front of your face.
He has equipped you with
everything
that you need to survive.
Stay rooted in Him.
Stay connected to your support system.
Stay focused on your growth.
Don't miss what God has placed
right in front of your eyes,
but be open to thinking
beyond what you actually see.
Until next time... Blessings!
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PS: If you are needing some extra support and encouragement,
we just started a brand new series over in our group,
Guarding the Gate... 21 Days of Encouragement.
Sister, you don't have to walk your path alone.
Join us!
